I have long thought that forgiveness was essential for the emotional well-being of the harmed individual (was for me, anyway). You’ve phrased it very eloquently.

I think you could strike “pastor” and put “person” – it applies equally to everyone!

Hmm! I was trying to get beyond “politician” but your suggestion would have been better.

And it IS hard. But in the end, it’s much more worthwhile to let go of anger than to wind up bitter or suspicious.